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A Deeper Look

27 June 2012



My husband was in our hotel room while I recorded this,
which made me nervous!
After I finished, he gave me some legit feedback.
"Em," he said, "isn't the whole point of the prompt to
actually share with your readers more about the things you mention?
You just told them what you don't talk about, without actually giving
them a deeper look into what you believe."

Actually, his first words,
while channeling his inner Steve Jobs,
were "that was shit."
{You'd have to read the Steve Jobs biography to know
that it's his favorite feedback to give.}

Well husband, you have a valid point.
I guess that wasn't a very revealing vlog, now was it?

So if you felt like I was being a vlog tease {what up new vocab},
then allow me to elaborate a little bit.

I believe
we are all children of the one God,
and that a spark of the Divine is within each of us.
I believe
no one is going to hell.  Ever.
I believe
whatever religion you practice (or don't practice),
and whatever you believe is awesome.  I don't want to
change you, or debate with you, or think I'm better than you.
I believe
that we create our own reality.
Our thoughts and words are like magnets
that attract people, things, and situations to us.
I believe
that we all have the power to love more perfectly,
to forgive more readily,
to feel peace in the face of any storm...
but I believe
it takes work to be a more perfect image of Christ,
or Buddha, or Krishna, or St Francis, or any of the great ones.
I believe
meditation is one of the most effective ways to achieve that transformation.
I believe
I'm making good progress in this lifetime,
but there's still a lot of work to do on myself.


Thanks so much for reading!

5ohwifey

What is it that you don't share with the blogosphere?

Visiting the Hanoi Hilton

26 June 2012


As an adult, I am slowly re-learning history, in methods and contexts that make sense and interest me.  I went to Hoa Lo Prison, better known as the Hanoi Hilton, knowing only that American POW’s were kept there during the Vietnam War, including—and most famously—John McCain.  However, I left Hoa Lo Prison knowing so much more, and with a thirst to continue researching and learning until my questions had been answered.

The French ruled an area called French Indochina, which included Vietnam, Laos, and Cambodia, from 1858-1945 (87 years.)  The French built the Hoa Lo prison, and used it to house, torture, and murder many Vietnamese, as they sought independence from the French.  During that time, the guillotine was commonly used—and even the elderly, female, and pregnant were not spared. 







It was only later than the “Hanoi Hilton” was used to house US Prisoners of War.  The Vietnamese were meticulous in their record keeping and saving of war artifacts.  For example, they have the parachute and jumpsuit worn by John McCain on display.

John McCain's parachute & suit

Much of the prison museum dedicated to the US POW’s focused on their kind treatment by the Vietnamese.  They show pictures of Christmas decorations, basketball games, and visits from humanitarian groups.  The display is extremely convincing.  They include video footage of the POW’s as well.  Particularly after seeing the exhibits on the horrors of that prison under the French, it’s easy to accept the compelling evidence that the US POW’s were, in fact, treated very well. 










 But as with everything, there are two sides to the story.  A little bit of online research tells a different story about the POW’s.  Many of them wrote memoirs upon their return home, and all of them tell about the torture they endured under the North Vietnamese.  Interesting, they were not tortured for tactical information about the war.  Rather, they were tortured into giving false statements about how well they were being treated by the North Vietnamese!  North Vietnam wanted to use these statements to turn global opinion against US involvement in the war.  So I guess, in some respects, that part of the prison museum was simply communist propaganda at it’s finest. 

Visiting Vietnam has been very enlightening, and sobering, as far as our involvement in the war is concerned.  My father-in-law fought in Vietnam for a year and has been haunted by it ever since.  My husband’s uncle spent only a week in Vietnam, but stepped on a land mine and lost both his legs.  It was a defining period of time for our parents’ generation.  I’m glad to learn about it at a time where it finally makes sense to me, in a way that is tangible, interesting, and I know I’ll never forget. 

The Streets of Hanoi, Vietnam

25 June 2012

The hustle and bustle of Hanoi came as a pleasant change of pace after the unstructured, slow pace of Bali.  Hanoi features the quintessential chaos of a proper Asian city.  Motorbikes clutter the sidewalk, serving as a makeshift parking lot, forcing you to brave the streets amongst the sea of cars, motorbikes, and pedestrians.  There is a method to the madness in Hanoi, but it takes some time to uncover.  To the untrained eye, it’s simply pandemonium.  Motorbikes driving in all directions, on all sides of the road.  The beep beep beep’s that seem to simultaneously communicate “Watch out!”, “I’m coming”, and “just a head’s up that I’m here.” 




Crossing the street is playing a real-life game of Frogger.  Red & green lights mean nothing.  Pedestrian crosswalks mean even less.  You must simply take a leap of faith and begin walking, ever so slowly, and have faith in those around you to adjust their path.

It is chaos.  However, it is also organized chaos.  There’s no road rage, and most near misses are met with neutrality, or perhaps even a smile.  The drivers are focused.  They anticipate the moves of other drivers and pedestrians.  And it works.  



Spiritual Sunday

24 June 2012

"The Infinite Source is an infinite dynamo, 
continually pouring strength, happiness, and power into the soul.  
That is why it is so important to rely as much as you can upon the Infinite Source."

-Paramahansa Yogananda
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